Thrifting

by Jessica (@jessicafhinton) on March 27, 2012

I started thrifting at 11. My first thrift store “steal” was a pair of white-washed, triangle leg, Guess jeans that were two sizes too small. They were the kind of tight, non-stretchy jeans that would give you a yeast infection. But I wore them because the Guess sign on the back pocket, or so I thought, aligned me with the cool kids whose parents would spend over $30 dollars for their jeans. Oh, and that triangle, smack dab in the middle of my butt, it made me look cool. Yeah.

Back then, I liked thrifting, but I was an amateur. I bought in bulk.  I would buy tons of flimsy, polyester tops and current “fashions” because either a) they were “name brands” or b) they looked good under the florescent lights. I would buy, buy, buy, and wear, wear, wear for about a year, then, when fashions changed, throw them in a giveaway bag. Of course, this constant recycling that I did was OK because the prices justified me (or, really my parents) spending small increments again and again and again and not really getting anything worthwhile.

But, now? Now, I’m a professional thrifter.

Yeah, if there were a show for people like me, I’d probably audition because, and especially since becoming a stay-at-home mom, I’ve become really that good. Hmm. Maybe I can put that talent on my stay-at-home mom resume: Professional Thrifter. Can find leather cowboy boots for less than $10 bucks. Hmm.

As a professional, I go thrifting with a plan. I shop for sales only. And I ONLY buy what I need.

We went to the thrift store this weekend. It was rainy yet hot out yet kind of windy, so Nya’s dress reflected that.

 

She wore a sweat shirt atop a pair of red pants that were mostly hidden beneath a tunic.

I usually keep her in the cart while I do the bulk of my shopping, but towards the end of our trips I always let her “look” around. And usually, she finds something, one thing, that she loves that I usually buy that one thing.

This time, her “thing” was a hat. But it was too big, so she threw it down to find another new thing, a white, plastic purse.

She carried it around the entire time, so I assumed that by the time we were set to pay for our stuff, she’d depart with it easily. “You already have a purse at home,” I said.

“Nooooooooooooo!” she said in response, grasping her purse like it really was her purse, like it really did contain something valuable and that I was some strange woman trying to steal it from her.

“Noooooooooooooo!”

So, I got the $1.00 purse.

And when we paid for it and got in the car, she sat it in her lap, smiled and said, “Mama. I happy.”

*sigh.

Oh, she’s such a charmer.

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p.s. If you follow me on Twitter, you know that this is the “broken” purse. The handle came off as result of Nya trying to attach it to her Princess car.

Oh, and this post is week 12 of my 52 photos challenge. I’m linking up with Courtney Kirkland.

About Jessica

Jessica F. Hinton is a writer, blogger, and hobbyist photographer living in the DC metropolitan area with her husband and two children. Her writings have appeared in various places on- and off-line, such as The Huffington Post, Babble, BlogHer, The African American Review, Early Mama, Tots 2 Tweens, and Baltimore's Child. She is a senior editor at Baby Gizmo and writes unedited at her other blog, http://shortlittlebits.com.

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Mirjam March 27, 2012 at 7:32 am

Those pictures…especially that last one.. swoon..
You can’t say thrifting and yeast infection in one sentence..you just can’t!
I am such a germaphobe, or however you write that ;)

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Jessica March 27, 2012 at 8:49 pm

lol. I know. I know. Luckily, my dad made me throw the too tight jeans out because he thought they were too “provocative.” LOL. I’m a germaphobe, too, more so now that I’m older though. :)

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Alison@Mama Wants This March 27, 2012 at 9:10 am

Gorgeous pictures, and look at her smile!

That IS a cute purse – did you manage to fix it?

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Jessica March 27, 2012 at 8:51 pm

I know. She was so happy. I haven’t managed to fix it. I think I may have to cut it open and use some super glue. I hope that works because she adores it!

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KalleyC March 27, 2012 at 10:53 am

Looks like the little one will be a thrifting pro as well! I need to get into the habit of thrifting. There are some good deals to be had.

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Jessica March 27, 2012 at 8:52 pm

There really are! You should definitely check out your local stores! You’d be amazed by what you can find, and at such low prices!!

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tracey March 27, 2012 at 11:15 am

I always go to the thrift stores first. Especially for my kids’ clothing. They grow out of it so quickly and wear it so hard that it’s painful to pay retail. I generally don’t roll around in the mud in my clothing (or naked) so my clothes tend to last a little longer. That said, I STILL Have to have a sale before I’ll consider purchasing.

She’s adorable. Beautiful eyes!

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Jessica March 27, 2012 at 8:54 pm

I’m the same way! And since kids clothing is outgrown so quickly, it’s always in such great shape at thrift stores. I love that! I only do sales, too. My local store has 50% off on Sundays, so that’s when I do the bulk of my shopping. It’s awesome!

And thank you! :-)

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Kimberly March 28, 2012 at 12:17 am

Really though, how could you resist that smile?

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Jessica March 28, 2012 at 8:25 pm

I know! It gets me every time! :-)

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christine@theaums March 28, 2012 at 10:04 am

Loved reading about your passion for thrifting…I started at a young age too although I remember looking for 60s and 70s bohemian styles. We have many thrift stores where I live and my kids enjoy shopping with me year round, but Halloween is their favorite. Your pictures are gorgeous (well, your subjects are too!), wondering what kind of camera you use?

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Jessica March 28, 2012 at 8:27 pm

Nice! Yeah, I’m sure thrift stores would be great for Halloween costumes.

And, thank you! I use a Canon Rebel T2i. With these pictures, I’m using a 50 mm 1.8 lens. :-)

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Rose's Daughter March 28, 2012 at 10:35 am

That last picture is awesome. That smile would get me everytime! My mother was a professional thrifter growing up. She could find ANYTHING! I think because I HAD to shop there as a teenager, I’ve been reluctant to go back. But I think I might just have to get over that feeling!

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Jessica March 28, 2012 at 8:28 pm

You should! Depending on where you go, there are really some great deals to be had! Seriously! I used to be ashamed of thrifting, but since I find such cool stuff, I got over that. If you do go, please come back and let me know of your finds! Seriously. :-)

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Kimberly March 28, 2012 at 1:16 pm

Yeast infection…hahahah!! Oh I needed that giggle so bad.
I am looking forward to hitting up garage sales this year. Pinterest is giving me all sorts of ideas ;)
She is such a doll.

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Jessica March 28, 2012 at 8:30 pm

lol. I’m glad I could make you laugh! Oh, garage sales are great, too! I haven’t seen any in my area, though. :( And, Pinterest is awesome for that. I’m using it to help with my thrift store shopping. And it’s been AMAZING!

Thank-you! :)

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Micheline March 28, 2012 at 4:06 pm

Oh, how I wish I had the patience for thrifting! I had it for a short while in college, but now I really have to be in the right mood. I’m such an online shopper, it’s dangerous.

Nya’s happiness in that last shot is completely infectious! So sweet. Hope the purse is fixable!

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Jessica March 28, 2012 at 8:33 pm

Oh, I am a online-shopping addict, too. I no longer shop for clothes online, but I do for electronics and books. So addicting. I used to be able to spend hours in thrift stores, but since I go with both my girls, all of my trips are very quick. I go with a plan, and that helps. Plus, I only shop sales, so that helps, too, to limit my shopping scope.

Thank you! I hope the purse can be fixed, too. I’m going to try using super glue. Hopefully that will be enough.

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Kory March 28, 2012 at 11:28 pm

Luv this! The pics are beautiful and Nya’s little face is adorable :)
You caught that PERFECT moment in a photo.
It truly is the little things in life that create such happiness!

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Jessica April 12, 2012 at 1:43 pm

I’m not sure how I missed this comment. Thank you, Kory. You’re exactly right! I hope you and little Zoe are doing well!

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Emmy March 29, 2012 at 12:41 am

Oh I wish we lived by each other- I love thrifting! I did not start until college though. It would be fun to have someone to go with. That last picture is so so cute!

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Jessica April 12, 2012 at 1:44 pm

I wish we lived by each other, too! I would love to have a thrifting buddy!

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vanita March 29, 2012 at 1:36 am

Jessica this post was awesome. and? my 2 year old is always walking around with this pink purse my 14 year old gave her. (so great that my youngest teen actually kept all her toys. as if she knew she’d have a little sister one day) don’t try taking natasha’s purse, she will beat you with it like that old lady in Madagascar 2, calling you a creep the whole time. no lie. ask her 3 yo brother. my little lady. Nya is beautiful. I just adore her pics. you lady have a talent. i hate shopping. i have no passion or patience for it. let me buy online from the comfort of my jammies and a cup of coffee and i’m happy. the last shopping trip i ever went on was while i was pregnant with Natasha and we went to woodbury commons. biggest mistake ever, but i did get enough clothes for one season for 4 kids and some stuff for hubby for less than $200 bucks. you gotta love outlet stores.

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Jessica April 12, 2012 at 1:42 pm

I don’t know how I missed this comment. I LOVE online shopping, too. But, I can never seem to find the same deals online as I do from thrift stores. Where are some places you shop online?

And, thank you on your very kind words! :-)

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vanita April 13, 2012 at 10:58 pm

girl you’ll never find the same deals online but i really do wait for major sales to shop for the teens from old navy and aeropostale. i’ll buy their new book bags 4 months early if ebags has a sale going on or they’ll use the last years bag until black friday. diapers and all the baby gear i use to buy from diapers.com (i know, not clothing, but still they were a steal once upon a time) when my boy was diagnosed lactose intolerant with 3 other allergies i had to switch to alimentum formula. girl it was $30 a can but somehow, SOMEHOW i got 72 cans at $8 a can from diapers.com at one point. I guess they just weren’t selling for them so they put it on sale. life saver i tell you.

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The Happy Mamma April 12, 2012 at 12:05 am

I bring Hank to the thrift store every Tuesday morning and then we go to the coffee shop for goodies afterwards. Save on the toys, splurge on the mocha!

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Jessica April 12, 2012 at 1:41 pm

That’s awesome! It’s nice to make an experience of the whole event.

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